How to Boost Your Power of Attraction and Improve Your Dating Potential
If you are tired of running into the run person, you definitely need to work on your Power of Attraction.
At this rate, it’s OK to admit (again) that the dating pool is toxic. Alainta Alcin otherwise known as ATL gets a Bae again. I could have sworn we did this episode before. In an attempt to snoop around for details, Lovely Merdelus and Lawrence Delva-Gonzalez dig up information yet again on ATL’s love life and finances.
Contrary to popular belief being single costs more (financially) than being paired up.
You asked and we delivered. Fans heavily requested the modern dating How To(s) since ATL keeps finding quality guys to go on dates with. While this information is curated for dating, in truth you can use the same ideas to create a better version of you. As always, it’s all love.
By the way, these are the show notes were we go even deeper on the subject.
Table of Contents
The Power of Attraction is a real thing
The law of attraction is the magnetic power of the Universe that manifests through everyone and through everything. It’s like the Force in Star Wars. It is the creative power of the Universe. Even the law of gravity is part of the law of attraction.
The 3 Laws of Powerful Attraction:
- Like Attracts Like
- Nature Abhors a Vacuum
- The Present is Always Perfect
Defining yourself in your Power
People say that opposites attract but it’s more often that like attracts like.
For example, we are more likely to have friends with similar interests. People tend to marry within similar socio-economic backgrounds. However, society and media has forced the idea that opposites attract as a means of completion. It’s likely that our thoughts attract our results.
What we think about and believe, we do. Our actions then produce the results we have in life.
Secondly, it is impossible to create a completely empty space because atoms are always bouncing around and immediately fill any empty space. Nature fills vacuums. Simply, you can’t find a great fit f you are entertained by all things toxic.
Finally, it always looks like the present isn’t perfect. Unfortunately, bad things happen. It is hard to see how bad things can be perfect or even good. It is very hard to tell in the moment. But, you can’t let the perfect be the enemy of the good.
What are people saying about dating these days (from Pew Research Center)?
Nearly half of US adults say dating has gotten harder for most people in the last 10 years. A majority of women say that they’ve experienced harassing behavior and general disinterest. Suffice to say with the pandemic in full swing, dating has been difficult. Guys are saying it’s harder to day in the #Metoo generation. And, people globally aren’t having as much sex anymore.
Ultimately, single men and women are finding it hard to connect and date.
Here’s some tips of Modern Dating and Attraction tips from the ModernMan.com:
- Don’t talk about dating profiles or exes during a date. Better yet, learn to communicate.
- Never Ghost someone. If the connection isn’t there, be an adult about it. You can still be friends or good people.
- Be Authentic. A powerful attraction is genuine and not forced.
- Check Your Baggage. Do the emotional or mental work before you run to the next relationship
- Don’t go on secluded areas on your first date. Safety first and notice how people interact in large environments.
- Grooming and Hygiene is still king. COVID taught a lot of people that washing their hands is not a bad thing.
- Don’t let yourself go. Get active and stay active.
Admit it, You Were Attracted to Us
The Financial Griot is a play on two words (Finance + Griot) that hold significance in closing the racial wealth gap.
Merriam-Webster defines a Griot as a West African historian, storyteller, praise singer, poet, or musician. The griot is a repository of oral tradition and is often seen as a leader due to their position as an advisor to royal personages. As a result of the former of these two functions, they are sometimes called a bard.
As such, we tell the stories that others don’t. Stories that we should share for growth, opportunity and understanding. Beyond that we talk about Finances. Specifically, how to become Financially literate, incorporating actionable steps and ultimately building generational wealth.
So there you have it, The Financial Griot or TFG for short. You will be in for a treat. The hosts were able to amass over $2 Million in wealth in about 8 years and are on track to retire early. If you want the secrets; we will gladly share them since opportunity is abundant and Win-Win.
Connect with TFG Crew:
- Alainta Alcin – Blogger, Travel and Money Enthusiast + Dating Guru @its_alainta
- Lovely Merdelus – Entrepreneur and Small Business Growth Specialist @lovelymerdelus
- Lawrence Delva-Gonzalez – Federal Auditor, Blogger and Tax Specialist @theneighborhoodfinanceguy
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